DEATH AUDIT - who murdered your potential

The AuDHD file : one day in the life of Eleanor

Sun, 13 Sep 2026 17:22:04 GMT

AuDHD has a very specific challenge that often gets missed since 2 systems cover up for each other - until, later in life, the energy leaks crash the resilience.

I take you through a regular with my client Eleanor, bit by bit, examining where the leaks are showing up - and what can be done about it.

High Masking Autism: The Chart Nobody Connected

Sun, 06 Sep 2026 22:26:33 GMT

This episode explores what high masking autism is, why it has been missed so long and what to do better.

The Tangent

Sun, 30 Aug 2026 18:02:49 GMT

The Tangent is often labeled as the "problem" - rarely do we look at it as "the way" - especially if you are ADHD or AuDHD and focus is the big thing.

And yet, the tangent can be what saves the situation. I walk you through a case of my own tangent and what changed downstream

The Compensated Clinician

Sat, 22 Aug 2026 22:30:44 GMT

This episode dissects the impact of the late diagnosis of ADHD for women in Healthcare and Medicine.

AS A HIGH FUNCTIONING WOMAN IN HEALTHCARE, DO YOU KNOW THE SIGNS YOU MAY HAVE ADHD?

Sun, 16 Aug 2026 20:32:17 GMT

Women are often not diagnosed with ADHD or AuDHD until late in life. There are numerous reasons for this, one of which is that it had been overlooked and classified as other things. Women were not usually hyperactively jumping around disturbing the peace of the classroom. But not diagnosed does not mean non existent. Compound this with entering the Healthcare system, the energy tax gets paid daily, mislabelled as failure, weakness, age and worse.

This episode highlights some of the symptoms, late diagnosed women with ADHD and AuDHD might have overlooked are misclassified. I was one of them.

Codependency - A system's View

Sat, 08 Aug 2026 18:32:48 GMT

In this episode we look at Codependency from two vantage points : the individual and the system and why the dance cannot truly be resolved at the level of the individual. We look at the price each position requests, the giver, the receiver and the system itself and what can be done about it.

The Ceiling

Sun, 02 Aug 2026 12:55:39 GMT

A client story : Why she could earn money but never keep it - examined through the lens of the Health Matrix Audit -

The Debt You Did Not Incur

Sun, 26 Jul 2026 15:53:56 GMT

How Belong to a system underlies the balance of give and receive. This can present itself as the inability to charge what you want, keep money when you make and other ways to overgive

The Nervous System Debt

Sat, 18 Jul 2026 20:30:04 GMT

Nervous system "bankruptcy" often comes unannounced - In this episode we look at how this may show up in your life and how you can start cleaning up "the debt"

What is Curiosity anyway and what does it have to do with death

Mon, 13 Jul 2026 01:05:34 GMT

Curiosity is the elixir of transformation - but what exactly is it - and why is it so important?

Thr AuDHD tax - an autopsy report

Sat, 04 Jul 2026 18:55:02 GMT

AuDHD is a complex situation that has a double tax : The tax for overriding need for simplicity and structure and the tax for novelty and excitement - all in the same body. This is akin to driving with one foot on the gas and one foot on the break all your life. No wonder this is an exercise in futility

Margin CALL

Sat, 20 Jun 2026 19:03:03 GMT

The ADHD/AuDHD tax we silently pay explained through the lens of the "margin call" analogy. How and why do we pay tax we don't know about and what to do about it?

My own autopsy

Mon, 04 May 2026 10:41:20 GMT

Why did I become a Health and wellness Coach and how did being a a pathologist add to this ? A late diagnosis AuDHD had me re-examine my entire history (again) through another framework to add to my forensic freedom approach to my Health Matrix Framework - I had missed my own diagnoses for many years

Atonement or Redemption - the ADHD trap

Sun, 12 Apr 2026 18:48:32 GMT

What is the difference between atonement and redemption and why does it matter, particularly if your brain is ADHD inspired?

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The hidden loyalties nobody told you about

Sun, 05 Apr 2026 20:34:37 GMT

Hidden loyalties silently run your life and keep you stuck and present energy leaks that are very costly to you. How do you recognize those and what to do about it? After listening, please let me know what you found out . Subscribe and share if you found this helpful and valuable.

How your language contributes to or murders your potential

Sat, 28 Feb 2026 16:59:30 GMT

In this episode I examine the role of language and mother tongue in what can get in the way of growth and the subtle ways this impacts your ( and that of your children ) potential in ways you probably never thought about. A systemic view through the POV of the actual immigrant

Autopsy on Love - a valentine's special

Sun, 15 Feb 2026 21:13:52 GMT

Love through the lens of the 4 chambers of the heart - a POV of how to look at your life through the Health Matrix Framework.

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The Dead Don't Need Applause

Sat, 07 Feb 2026 17:04:54 GMT

In this episode we look at the need for narcissistic supplies and how and what this is costing us. It's probably not what you think - but you are paying for it every day with your energy. We look at the antidote: Curiosity.

Dead Reckoning - what autopsies taught me about resilience

Sat, 31 Jan 2026 19:32:18 GMT

what is the difference between resilience and navigation and what is actually effective - one is managing complexity, the other one optimizing for simplicity, one easily leads to burn out, the other one to life sustenance and growth

The Clean Slate - Currency Reform in June 1948 in Germany

Mon, 26 Jan 2026 18:24:49 GMT

In this episode we look at how the experience of the "clean slate" of the currency reform in Germany n 1948 can apply to both the Boomer as well as the Millennial generation and what we all can learn from it

Changing Healthcare for good?

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 01:22:57 GMT

In this episode we examine how the principles of Family systems apply to organizations and what the consequences are when those are ignored, both for the organization and its members

Freedom to choose what's just right for you

Mon, 05 Jan 2026 23:48:57 GMT

In reflection of the new year and referring to chapter 2 of my book : the Curiosity Quotient, I examine the issue of goals verus aims and how that distinction can lead to more freedom

Arriving without the Madness

Sun, 21 Dec 2025 21:22:15 GMT

In this episode we examine how the movie: The bridge on the river Kwai inspired me to get curious about who I am building my bridges for and how this is very important to aks yourself

immigration or the passport of ghosts

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 16:23:00 GMT

In this episode I examine the price we pay for immigration and emigration - I am not talking about paperwork , I am talking about the impact on your family system and how to deal with it

Death Audit: what Death teaches you about how to live

Sun, 23 Nov 2025 20:07:57 GMT

In this episode we take a look at what death teaches us about how to live - based on chapter 5 of my book : The Curiosity Quotient - a renegade pathologist's detour guide to the morgue

The Ancestral Pattern Murdering Your Potential

Sun, 16 Nov 2025 23:20:01 GMT

How does your family system murder your potential. In this episode, which is a quick summary of chapter 4 of my book: The Curiosity Quotient - a renegade pathologist's detour guide to the morgue, we look at how your family system is silently keeping you are prisoner to pattern belong to others - and what to do about it

When the sofa talks back

Sun, 02 Nov 2025 21:19:58 GMT

In this episode we examine the impact and murder potential of your "stuff" , clutter and your living environment as a mirror of your inner life and how it impacts your energy and potential. This is a short intro to one of the chapters in my book: The Curiosity Quotient - A Renegade Pathologist's Detour Guide to the Morgue - available on Amazon and Barnes and Nobles. If you would like to read a free chapter go to my website www.sabine-olaughlin.com.

The Gold is in the Blockage

Sun, 26 Oct 2025 22:56:04 GMT

Another culprit of who murdered your potential: the stuff you deny, reject, ignore or don't see: the blockage. This is a taste of chapter 8 of my recently published book: The Curiosity Quotient : a renegade pathologist's detour guide to the morgue.

FEAR OF LIFE - CHAPTER 15 OF BOOK THE CURIOSITY QUOTIENT

Sun, 12 Oct 2025 00:17:22 GMT

Introducing the upcoming book launch : The Curiosity Quotient - A renegade pathologists's detour guide to the morgue. Chapter 15: Fear of Life.

This episode gives a glimpse into one o the major issue: it's not fear of death but fear of life .

The Executive Shutdown Investigation

Sun, 05 Oct 2025 20:35:32 GMT

In this episode we examine how the intersections of ADHD neurology and workplace set up for neurotypical people murders your executive function

The Perfectionist's Prison Break

Sun, 28 Sep 2025 20:49:50 GMT

Another Culprit is Perfectionism in : who murdered your potential. We examine what it's function is intended to be but what it ends up being - a very common way for high achieving women (and men for that matter) to manage their anxiety and "take control" by slowly killing themselves.

The High-Functioning Fraud File

Sun, 21 Sep 2025 17:42:59 GMT

Culprit #2: late diagnosis ADHD and why you feel like you have one foot on the break and one on the gas petal and wonder why you are beginning to lose energy (while blaming menopause, politics , age and fill in the blank)

Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) as culprit #1

Sun, 14 Sep 2025 16:15:28 GMT

RSD is a slick murderer of your potential - and you may not even know it. It slowly derails , re-routes your path and you end up "on top of the ladder" wondering where you are and what you actually want in life, but you think "I'll live when I retire", or " I need an exit strategy" - exit what? I will talk about how this happened to me (and I am not the only one ) what you can do to change your life story's ending

Who murdered your potential? How I got off the express train to the morgue and started taking the scenic route

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 23:22:27 GMT

Welcome to Death Audit - a renegade pathologist's detour guide to the morgue - In this episode we will explore how I got recruited to exploring life instead of death- and the surprising connections